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When it comes to sustaining a thriving, healthy marriage, I believe that grand gestures are overrated. In a world of choreographed, flash-mob proposals and Pinterest-perfect breakfasts-in-bed, it's easy to get caught up in the grand gestures of love, but I think it's the little things that truly keep...

Have you ever wondered if you can go from hating blowjobs to loving them? Not just tolerating. Not getting through. But truthfully getting to a place where you adore giving them? Ever since my wife Demetra and I released our video course, Queen of Blowjobs, my email inbox has been flooded with...

At face value, blowjobs might seem like they're all the same. Erect penis, meet mouth. But once you graduate from the adolescent groping that happens in the backseat of your car, you might realize that there is a whole other realm of blowjob mastery to be had. You can incorporate dirty talk...

On a weekly basis, for the last 15 or so years, I have had someone ask me some version of: "Can you just introduce me to a healthy partner / Can you start a matchmaking service so that I can meet the people that follow your work?" Literally, every week. Here's the thing... We've all...

Looking for loving words to say during sex? Enter: loving dirty talk! Some of my long-term readers might be surprised to learn that several of my highest-ranked articles of all time are all around the theme of dirty talk. Dirty talk for beginners, dirty talk that men love to hear, how to dirty...

Do you want to give your man the best blowjob of his life, and make him sexually obsessed with you? Enter: blowjob dirty talk! A long-time client of mine recently emailed me the following question: "My husband loves it when I dirty talk during blowjobs. I know that this is one of his favorite things,...

Think you're ready for a relationship with a conscious man? The truth might surprise you. If you have been single for years, and yet you have the desire to be in a committed relationship with a man who meets you on all levels, there could be some unconscious blocks that are keeping you from attracting...

I’ve written before about cognitive biases, and today, I’m going to speak to a different one and help you use it to improve your marriage (or any romantic relationship you’re in). Us humans have what is commonly referred to as a 'negativity bias.' Which is a fancy way of saying that we’re better at...

On January 26th, 2013, I officially launched this business of mine. Whether you're a self-employed business owner and looking to shortcut some of my hard-earned wisdom, or just a reader of my work who is curious about peeking behind the curtain of a different aspect of my process, there will be something...

There are a handful of concepts that are so popular… so everywhere… that every time I see them, I just want to shoot myself in the fucking face. Both the frequency of how often I hear about them and the degree to which people believe in them without question really grinds my gears. So, welcome...