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Who is Jordan Gray?

Who is Jordan Gray?

I have always been a sensitive, intuitive, big-hearted person. When I was growing up, this was taken advantage of.

I faced challenges from the ages of 5-15 that made me fear and avoid relationships…

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Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners (116 Examples)
Nov 11, 2015
Jordan Gray
Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners (116 Examples)
Dirty talk can feel like walking through a minefield. Most people feel embarrassed at the thought of it, because they were never taught the basics. In the bedroom, when someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” the would-be dirty talker freezes up. “What should I say? What do they want me to...
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11 Ways To Be A More Attractive Man (or How To Fight Entropy 101)
Sep 29, 2018
Jordan Gray
11 Ways To Be A More Attractive Man (or How To Fight Entropy 101)
You know what I’m really tired of? Articles that promise the fastest, easiest, lowest-barrier-to-entry bullshit tips on how men can improve themselves. Since when are we all after the quick and easy silver bullet? Have we collectively become that lazy as a society that we’re all perpetually...
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10 Simple Ways To Immediately Be More Attractive To Your Man
Jan 9, 2019
Jordan Gray
10 Simple Ways To Immediately Be More Attractive To Your Man
Looking to be more attractive to your man? What a beautiful intention! Go you! Over time, it’s not uncommon for the passion, sexual tension, and romantic energy to dwindle in a relationship. Now, this isn’t an inevitability of being in a long-term relationship (I know many couples who have highly charged...
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50 Powerful Sex Tips For Men
Jan 20, 2018
Jordan Gray
50 Powerful Sex Tips For Men
Looking for cutting edge sex tips for men? I've released hundreds of articles of sex advice through the years... and if you're new to my site it can seem a bit overwhelming to sort through. So today, I decided to do a best-of-the-best collection of my fifty sex tips for men. My female readers...
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I Believe In Loving Like You Give A Shit
Dec 13, 2015
Jordan Gray
I Believe In Loving Like You Give A Shit
I believe in loving like you give a shit. I believe in being overly affectionate in public. Even if it means that those who are envious label you as 'that couple' or tell you to get a room. I believe in flirting with someone you’ve been with for years. I believe in seeking out our barriers to intimacy...
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How To Develop Your Masculine Edge: 9 Steps To Becoming A Beast
Mar 25, 2017
Jordan Gray
How To Develop Your Masculine Edge: 9 Steps To Becoming A Beast
Are you looking to develop your masculine edge? Do you sometimes feel like you lack passion, fire, or courage in your life? Do you find yourself feeling lacklustre, being boring, or overly nice? Do you find it difficult to stay motivated in your career path, attract romantic partners that you're deeply...
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7 Popular Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make
Sep 24, 2025
Jordan Gray
7 Popular Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make
We all want to live a meaningful life, but most of us unknowingly carry blind spots that hold us back. And they don’t always look like “big”, punch-you-in-the-face-obvious mistakes. They usually show up as quiet, subtle defaults. Left unchecked (and unseen), these patterns inevitably rob us of growth,...
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How To Not Sabotage A Promising New Relationship
Aug 28, 2025
Jordan Gray
How To Not Sabotage A Promising New Relationship
Ever worried about sabotaging a promising new relationship? It isn't just you. A client recently sent me the following email: "I have been in a new relationship for a month now and I like him so much. The problem is that I have an obsession with manifesting him leaving. It sounds convoluted but...
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5 Mistakes I Made On The Path To Finding My Wife
Jul 15, 2025
Jordan Gray
5 Mistakes I Made On The Path To Finding My Wife
Before meeting my wife, I spent years getting in my own way. I made a handful of mistakes that likely cost me years of connection, intimacy, and peace of mind. I remember sitting across from a friend one night, telling him that maybe I just wasn’t cut out for lasting love. I was frustrated,...
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5 Powerful Relationship Tools That Work Fast
Jun 18, 2025
Jordan Gray
5 Powerful Relationship Tools That Work Fast
Many people think that their relationship will improve when the big things in life change. When they move to a new house, make more money, or finally take that long-overdue vacation. Then, they tell themselves, they'll have the time and space to put more...
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7 Relationship Tools For Married Entrepreneurs
Feb 12, 2025
Jordan Gray
7 Relationship Tools For Married Entrepreneurs
You love your spouse. You also love your work. But some days, it feels like you’re being pulled in opposite directions. Between marketing, meetings, and (often self-imposed) deadlines, where does your marriage fit in? The good news is, balancing love and entrepreneurship isn’t about choosing...
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9 Reasons To Not Use Dating Apps (At All, Ever)
Jan 29, 2025
Jordan Gray
9 Reasons To Not Use Dating Apps (At All, Ever)
Despite millions of people using dating apps, nearly 80% of users report feeling burnt out, frustrated, and no closer to finding a meaningful connection. While dating apps claim to bring people together, some research suggests they often do the opposite - leading to higher rates of anxiety, lower...
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