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What is a penis massage? A penis massage (aka “lingam” massage, in tantric lingo) is a structured process with emotional and physical techniques designed to deliver a deeply healing and pleasurable experience. Just like a regular massage in a spa, penis massage is a form of therapy. But the benefits...

What is a pussy massage? A pussy massage (aka “yoni” massage) uses specific emotional and physical techniques to deliver an erotic full body massage that focuses on/around the vulva. However, the power of this experience goes WAY beyond traditional body massage, where she would usually just be getting...

Once people get past the early romance phase of a relationship, it can start to run on autopilot to an unhealthy degree. In short, people stop paying quality attention. Both to their partner, and to how they themselves are showing up in the relationship. Fortunately, if you get better at asking...

The majority of modern men are soft. And the world is suffering as a result. We live in a time of unprecedented prosperity and ease. And before you point your finger at the billionaires at the top, point your finger back at yourself and acknowledge just how fucking easy your life is compared to the...

Addictions are usually thought of as behaviours that damage and hinder your life. But addictions and compulsions are on a sliding scale. Some, you could argue, are more useful than others. There’s very little upside to being a heroin addict. But there are many other habits that are considered addictions,...

The topics of mental health and depression didn’t rise into mainstream conversation until a few years ago. While it’s better late than never, this sadly means the majority of us were never openly educated on how to support someone who is struggling and contemplating suicide. Many people were trained...

Shelves have been filled with books trying to explain the sexes to each other. Despite what some want to believe, we have our differences. And there’s nothing bad about that. It’s not about better or worse. It just is what it is. When it comes to men and women, there are statistically...

A few months ago, I sent out an email to my email list requesting that my female readers ask me absolutely anything they wanted to know about. Within 24 hours, I had received hundreds of responses. The #1 most common thing that they asked about? Men. More specifically, what men were thinking. What...

Something I’ve learned from years in men’s work is that for most guys to really feel like men, they need to be initiated into manhood by a community of other guys, especially older ones. This is where they learn certain skills and ways of living. Most importantly, this initiatory process of...

In a world where materialism is celebrated, frugality is a virtue. It's easy to fritter away your resources on superficial things that add zero value to your life. However, money can buy certain things that do create massive impact on your life. Many people are under-spending in these areas,...