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Looking to groom or clean your genitals in a really thorough manner? Curious as to what the benefits of doing so would be, or why anyone does it in the first place? Maybe you’re getting back into the dating scene after a long term relationship or marriage and pubic hair ‘trends’ have shifted… Maybe...

In this article, I am going to dive into everything you need to know about the shadow. How to face it, own it, integrate it, and use it as your rocket fuel. Ignore this advice, and your shadow will own you. It will wreak havoc in your relationships. Left unfaced, your shadow becomes the anchor being...

Have you ever worried about being (or becoming) a loser? One of my email subscribers recently sent me this question: “I am currently in a downward spiral of becoming a full-fledged loser… I eat terribly, I'm not making my sleep a priority when I know I should, I’m not making any progress on my...

The majority of modern relationships are based off of fear. Marriages that are more about possessiveness than about love. Unspoken codependent social contracts abound. Jealousy, game playing, and manipulation are more the default than the exception. So, if trying to possess or control someone is the...

Today, more than ever, people are psychologically soft. We have been raised in a time of unprecedented ease, comfort, and convenience. We are, on a daily basis, guarded from the painful realities of life. We avoid real-time romantic rejection by swiping left and right on the faces of strangers. We...

Looking to be more attractive to your man? What a beautiful intention! Go you! Over time, it’s not uncommon for the passion, sexual tension, and romantic energy to dwindle in a relationship. Now, this isn’t an inevitability of being in a long-term relationship (I know many couples who have highly charged...

Looking to optimize your foreplay abilities? Wondering how you can get your partner "in the mood" for sex more often? Want to increase the overall amount of eroticism and spice in your relationship and sex life on a daily basis (in and out of the bedroom)? This is the most comprehensive and deepest...

Butt Stuff. Tushy titillation. Rousing the rump. Fanny shenanigans. Whatever you want to call it... anal play is a hugely misunderstood treasure trove of sexual pleasure. Like many people, you might feel a bit of hesitation around trying it, whether you're worried it's "dirty", have had a bad experience,...

All of my life, I have loved tending to fires. When I was a little boy, one of my grandparents owned a small cabin a couple hours drive from my hometown. In this cabin, there was a wood burning fireplace. When I was around the age of six, my dad taught me how to set up a proper fire, and I was immediately...

I want to make you a sweaty, bloody mess Sink my teeth into shoulder and tear off the flesh Leave marks on you that last for weeks Passion rushed, limbs crushed underneath Forget your name. Forget your place. Envelop torso so tightly, hear brittle bones break Tongue so deep in your mouth, you disappear A...