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If you’re looking to wander in to the mysterious world of BDSM for the first time, then this article is for you. Kinky sex is wickedly alluring for many reasons. It breaks cultural taboos, pushes your erotic comfort zone, and potentially leads to thrilling peak experiences, which are otherwise inaccessible...

Do you feel like you might be lacking a sexual edge in your life? Want to feel more dominant, assertive, and powerful in the bedroom? Whether you know it or not, what you're looking to cultivate is called dark sexual energy. And I'm going to show you how to do it.  The...

One year ago, I embarked on a testosterone boosting mission. My question was simple... "By exclusively using science-backed, natural methods, can I double my testosterone levels, without using any drugs, steroids, SARMS, or any other questionable methods that produce long-term damage...

A coaching client of mine recently sent me a question via email on self-trust that I had a lot of energy for. Here is her question, followed by my response to her. - "Hi, Jordan. Since you seem to be looking for topics to write about every now and then, I'd have one for you I'd...

The messages that we get regarding sex via pop culture have the ability to put a lot of pressure on us. Fuck for twelve hours straight! 40 orgasms each! Do it every day or else your relationship is doomed! With standards like these being thrown at us, it’s hard not to think that we might...

Here are three true short stories. About Tammy, Anna, and Joe.  (All names and any identifying details have been changed to protect identity.) Tammy Last week, a woman (who I will call Tammy) sent me a 1,000+ word email telling me about how she wanted...

It’s easy to become complacent in life.  It’s easy to just go back to sleep and chronically neglect your growth edges. Laziness is our default. Psychological sleepiness plagues our world. Entropy is real. And if we aren’t consciously shaking up our routines every now and...

Sexual shame is the silent killer of sex lives. And it is a worldwide epidemic.  Whether you came upon sexual shame via religious programming, sexual abuse, manipulative ex-lovers who damaged your self-esteem, or any other reason, sexual shame is a common and unfortunate byproduct of being raised...

If you ever have a difficult time receiving compliments… If you have a difficult time understanding why people like you, or are drawn to you… If you have a hundred excuses on the tip of your tongue as to why you can’t do the work you love, find your dream partner, or live a life that...

I’ve lost two close friends over the past few years. One was 25 years old, the other was 30. And, without hyperbole or rose-coloured glasses on my face, I can easily say that they were both some of the best people I have ever known. The kind of people that make me think ‘Only the good die young’...