Blog

Want to expand and explore your relationship to your sexuality, and you’re in a relationship (or soon hope to be in one)? You’ve found the right article. You can place this squarely under the category of “WHY WERE WE NOT TAUGHT THIS STUFF IN SCHOOL?” Oh well, One day! That’s in my twenty year goals....

As much as I have learned about people from studying human sexuality for the past decade and working with clients 1 on 1 on their sex lives… I still feel like I’m just scratching the surface. I have an insatiable curiosity when it comes to people. And I am especially curious about what they do in bed. As...

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about what makes a new relationship work or not, it’s the following… Ask yourself this question to know whether or not you should be dating the person you are and your entire life will benefit. Do you feel compelled or do you feel cornered? So...

After years of self-reflection, I truly feel like I’ve found the holy grail of relationship mindset. These four rules encapsulate so much of what I believe to be true in relationships (intimate or otherwise) that I wanted to refine them into their simplest possible form before I made them public. Well,...

Let’s face it… our current sexual education system is completely broken. Between rom-coms, pornography, and the half-assed ‘talk’ we get from our well-meaning parents, the sexual information we learn throughout our formative years leaves much to the imagination. The effect? Generations of unaware...

Let’s face it... we all love taking short cuts. And, if we aren't careful, our relationships are often taken for granted. But too many short cuts can lead to a lazy, unintentional relationship that merely exists, instead of thrives. If you want to shed years of emotional baggage, feel loved and...

While there is a deep sense of comfort and companionship in the day to day habits of a long-term relationship’s sexual routine, sometimes a predictable sex life needs to be shaken up. While purists may roll their eyes at the unexceptional writing quality and repetitive dialogue in the literature, the...

You lie on your back. Your chest is heaving with a rapid and full breath. Your performance was a stellar one and you did everything that Maxim told you to. You look over to witness her expression and your stomach drops. Not only does she not look blissed out in a post-orgasmic whirlwind of happiness,...

One of the most common questions that I get asked by my clients is how they can encourage their partner to grow and develop as a person, while bringing up the subject from a loving place (as opposed to a challenging place that would make them think something was wrong with them). Whether you want...

As much as my books and blog posts largely focus on how to be the ultimate relationship partner, I get asked by men on a daily basis how to meet and attract a quality relationship in the first place. Without further ado, here is what I have learned through 15 years of serial monogamy. While getting...