Sex

Where are men and women most vulnerable? What specific things do their partners say to them that bother them the most? When and how do they feel the most criticized? You asked me… I asked them… and they answered. These poll-style articles have become a consistent hit that my readers seem to love, so...

Ever heard of slow sex? If not, you’re about to. Today I’m going to deep dive into what slow sex is, why it matters, and why it could be the thing that single handedly revitalizes your relationship, magnifies the sexual pleasure that both you and your partner feel, and reduces stress,...

We grow up in a culture that throws layers of non-sense on top of our relationship to our sexuality. We’re taught from a young age that this is what men are supposed to like. And this is what women are supposed to like. But if guys like something too much then they’re creepy, desperate, or freaks. And...

There's a problem with how modern, western society is built up. And it's working against us. We're stressed out. We're increasingly socially isolated from each other. We are the most medicated adult cohort in human history. Our sedentary lifestyles, status-seeking culture, and improper food intake...

We really can’t control much of anything in our funny little lives. We grasp for control. We grasp for meaning. We grasp for a semblance of purpose in everything that we do. In my opinion, there’s only one thing that we can ever truly control. And I’ll tell you what that is. But first, a story. My...

Ever wondered exactly why men love blowjobs? Besides the baseline explanation of 'they feel good'? The majority of men don't primarily love blowjobs because they're an act of submission. Or because it means he gets to momentarily feel powerful. Or because he sees it as payback for all of the things...

A few weeks ago, I received a first-of-it's-kind email in my inbox. A long-term client of mine (named Joseph) told me that he and his wife of twelve years were going to take an extended vacation with each other. Their shared business was essentially running on autopilot and they had more than enough...

Ever wish you could last longer in bed? Increase your sexual stamina? Have sex for hours without stopping? Well, I have good news. You're not alone! This is by far one of the most commonly asked questions that I get from my male readers… so today, I want to answer this question to the fullest extent...

On a monthly basis, my readers send me hundreds of various questions about sex, sexual pleasure, and sexual satisfaction in intimate relationships… "How do I bring back the spark to my sex life with my wife/husband/partner?" "How can I let my partner know what I want in bed... without...

On the heels of the success of my article What Amazing Sex Feels Like For Women, I've had multiple requests to write a follow up from the male perspective. And I aim to please! So, this time, I reached out to my five most eloquent, self-aware male friends (who are all non-writers). Then I asked them...